New podcast episode: New School

My daughter starts fifth grade at a new school next month.  It’s a fresh start, where no one knows that she’s transgender. How do I handle this? How do I advise her?  Should she keep her transgender status to herself or be more open? After you listen to this episode, I could really use your advice: What…

New podcast episode: Won’t you be my neighbor?

We’ve moved to a new part of town.   And we’re just starting to get to know our new neighborhood. It’s pretty different from our old neighborhood.  We used to be in the heart of the city, and now we’re in the suburbs. My daughter loves the fact that there are kids everywhere and trampolines in…

A big change for gendermom!

Dear friends, Big news! Last week, I left my job of ten years to devote my time fully to this blog and production of my podcast, How to Be a Girl, as well as other projects aimed at advocating for kids like mine and telling their stories. I’m excited and a bit anxious as I bid…

New podcast episode: The Prince

Did you know there’s a wedding coming up, uniting an Englishman with an American bride? Listen now for ALL the juicy details on this intercontinental couple’s forthcoming nuptials! (And hear what my daughter thinks of her soon-to-be stepdad.)   If you’d like to support the podcast, please consider signing up to sponsor us on Patreon. It…

New podcast episode: Jazz and Jeanette Jennings

I’ll never forget the day, soon after my four-year-old “son” told me she was my daughter, when I went online and found a video of little Jazz talking with Barbara Walters.  Her family’s courage literally changed the course of our lives. It was such an honor to get to talk with Jazz and Jeanette Jennings…

New podcast episode: The Betrayal

I’m excited to announce the first full episode of “How to Be a Girl” in over a year. It’s been a big (hard, but also wonderful) year, and there wasn’t much time or energy left over for blogging or podcasting.  Your emails of love and support have kept us going.  Please keep writing (genderawesome@gmail.com) and let…

Hit by “Trans-Friendly” Fire

When they interviewed me and my young trans daughter, both reporters seemed sympathetic to us and claimed to be trans-friendly.  So why did they turn around and write such transphobic articles?   I let a reporter from The Economist magazine interview this sassy 9-year-old trans little girl. The resulting article never mentioned her. Over the course…